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Congratulations! You have found a seemingly perfect neighborhood and just moved into your dream home. All seems well…until you begin to notice that the dog across the street barks all night long and the teenager next door likes to practice playing the drums at 5 a.m.
No matter where you live, you may occasionally be faced with a not-so-courteous neighbor. Below are some tips to help you deal with any issue in a good neighborly fashion.
Speak Up
The best solution for dealing with disruptive neighbors is to talk to them. If they are playing music too loudly, for example, let them know about it. A simple polite request to turn the volume down will usually solve the problem that very moment. The worst thing you can do when faced with a disturbance is to do nothing at all. If you don't voice your concerns, your neighbors may never realize they are bothering anyone.
When approaching others about an issue, it is important to be open to compromise. If they can't bear to discontinue their behavior, perhaps they'll be open to changing the day or time they engage in the activity so that it becomes less disruptive. By suggesting compromise to resolve an issue, you act as a friend trying to reach an agreement—not a stranger trying to mandate change.
Don't Fight Fire with Fire
Being polite is critical. Greeting your neighbors with an angry attitude could escalate the issue and turn you into the annoying neighbor. If your neighbor reacts angrily to your request and proves impossible to talk to after various attempts on your part, it may be wise to seek the help of an outside authority, such as a landlord or even the police, depending on the severity of the disturbance. If you ever feel threatened by your neighbors after making a complaint, you should contact the police.
Do Your Homework Beforehand
Visiting a neighborhood during different times and days of the week before moving into it can help you avoid unpleasant surprises, as it will give you a deeper sense of the neighborhood's noise and activity level. Walking around the block—instead of driving—will allow you to better assess sights, sounds and smells, as well as talk to potential neighbors.
Remember that everyone has a different lifestyle, and what you consider inappropriate may seem completely normal to someone else. By doing your homework and working to peacefully co-exist with your neighbors, you all can enjoy your properties with little to no trouble at all!
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